Business Manager - Fifty Shades of Nonsense --- a discussion

Gentleman - "Very attracted! If you feel the same way lets talk after you read the profile, smile." Lady - "I love art, fitness and falling in love. I hate the book fifty shades of grey, doesn't cut it for me. We don't need to be hog-tied to make passionate love. I want to get to know a guy before I consider sex with him (pretty good idea, don't you think). Would love to hear back from you." Gentleman - "I am sorry to say but though I am very attracted there is not a fit here if you believe what you wrote, in my view you can't get to know a man in less than a few months and why would he want to do that with you when you care so little and are so not attracted; you're afraid to get intimate? Women who say this to me are just afraid of intimacy and I have no trust in them, after all if you prefer to go to dinner with a man you find very attractive whose kidding who?" . "Must say Im guessing you also have no idea of the type of erotic tension and connection there is in a dominant/sub relationship, it is closer and with more trust and for the record it will please you in ways you have not experienced. Simplifying it to suggest it is about bondage just means it is not for you as you have no idea of the pleasure possible. For me vanilla sex is nice some of the time but the only way to build the closeness and trust and erotic connection I seek is with a woman who understands how rare and beautiful it is to have that type of amazing sex as a foundation for becoming friends and hopefully sharing a life in the future." "But that takes trust and desire neither of which it sounds like you offer. You sound like a practical woman who is afraid of intimacy and loves being wined and dined by your comments. You can't get to know a man till you sleep with him you fool, who cares if he is a nice guy and then lousy in bed?" Lady - "Thanks for your comments and I agree we are not a good fit. Of course I want to be wined and dined, you fool? What woman, doesn't. As for being a submissive, absolutely not; why would I give away my power and how would that give me greater pleasure, lol. I have had amazing sex on an equal platform and plan to keep it that way. One last comment, who cares if he's good in bed, if he isn't a nice guy (food for thought). I bring who I am, my creativity, seductiveness, playfulness, and sexual intensity to the bedroom --- because I am an active participant in my own pleasure, but foreplay begins on an intellectual/emotional level. I suspect you're the one who's incapable of intimacy." Repeated Life Lesson - Some gentlemen on internet dating sites are just looking for sex and won't invest the time or money to get to know a lady. Life Lesson for the Gentleman - No emotionally healthy woman is going to be happy in a submissive role. Like I said before slavery has been abolished!