#11 - Restauranteur - Ex Cop

This gentleman messaged me on the internet dating site claiming that I looked like the Kardasians. A psychic had predicted that he would end up with a woman who resembled Kim Kardasian, lol. He was a good looking, dark haired Greek guy a little younger than I. He lived in my area. We had been chatting for a week when he invited me for lunch at Kelsey's. I arrived at Kelsey's a few minutes early wearing a black, mini, Material Girl dress with a wide zipper up the front and mauve pumps. The dress top was accented with a blue/mauve floral veil. My jewelry consisted of a mauve, silver chain with matching earrings. He watched me get out of my vehicle and zap my fob with my right arm up in the air. He later told me that was what enticed him to come into the restaurant --- my sense of confidence. He had previously worked as a policeman on stake out and was utilizing that skill. I sat in the bar, and within a couple of minutes he came in and sat down beside me. He looked just like his profile picture and said that I did as well. He was quite pleasant talking about his restaurant. We ordered chicken fajitas, salad and red wine. He shared with me that he was (had been) very much in love with a married Korean woman and was just coming off a two year relationship with her. He said that he felt used because she lived with her wealthy husband, never allowed him to meet her kids but only enjoyed his company whenever she could get away. I agreed with him that it sounded like she was using him and never intended to offer him more. He told me that he liked Asian women and that I was the first Caucasian woman he had invited out. Then he revealed what the psychic had told him. I laughed, feeling flattered that he thought I resembled the Kardasians. He said that he and his brother were very busy with their restaurant. He wished me well; walked me to my car and embraced me as we said our good-byes. I wasn't sure if I would ever hear from him again because I knew that he liked me but I was also certain that he was still very much in love with the Korean woman. Lesson #11 - some gentlemen on internet dating sites stake out a date before they come in and may very well leave you stranded if they don't like what they see. Life Lesson for the Gentleman - Wow, in love with a married woman for two years, what were you thinking? Why would you limit yourself to just dating Asians? --- clearly a sign that you were not willing to let go of your affair. Post-script - As I suspected he never called.