A Conversation

Gentleman -Thank you, I hear that a lot, that men are so visual but I am not sure I agree. There is far more to attraction then visual. Lady -I agree but we wouldn't be having this conversation if we didn't like each other's pics. Yes, in order to have a real connection, it takes time to get to know if two people have similar values, levels of education, goals and attitude. I enjoy getting to know someone and never have sex on a first or second date (can ruin any potential). K, sounds a little rigid but it's a rule of thumb I live by. Gentleman -Lol that's a good rule of thumb... yes online the visual is pretty much the main sense you can go by for attraction. That's why meeting in person is the real test. because thats when all the other senses click in. Lady -Yes I agree, photos are 2-D but real life is multi-D. Meeting in person and hanging out is the best way to begin to get to know someone. But here's the thing, one meeting is never enough. I like to have 2 or more before I form an opinion. Gentleman -Really, what if the first is so terrible? But you're right it takes time you have to progress, first dating. I am not one to rush into things anymore like when i was 20