#10b - Government Employee - clearly, you don't mess with the Government!

Yesterday was the worst day of my life. I contacted the Government Employee and agreed to meet him at a downtown dance club to talk. I cleaned my house, cooked for my son, straightened my hair, put on a black/red tight fitting dress with a light sweater, red pumps and lipstick, matching red jewelry and headed out. He texted me and told me that he would meet me there but would arrive earlier than I. I arrived at 9:45 since it took me 40 minutes to drive down, paid my entrance fee and entered the room. I could not see him so I texted him. Then I spotted him on the dance floor with a vibrant, young lady dancing the night away. He later told me that he had been dancing with her for an hour and a half and even though I looked beautiful, he was confused. They were clearly into each other. He admitted that she was too young but said it didn't bother him. The lady was a 33 year old Iranian who spoke Farsi. I began telling him that he was making a mistake but stopped short, realizing that there was nothing I could do or say to change his mind. He told me that they had just met and she was willing to move in with him, didn't want any children of her own and would be content to help raise his. I suggested that she was after his assets. He grimaced. He said he had drank 2 glasses of wine before he arrived and had just finished a third at the venue. "You drove drunk! Why didn't you wait for me?", I declared. Then he announced that he had to go get another glass of wine. He returned with the Iranian woman and they sat down together across from me. I picked up my coat, and started to leave. He followed me to the exit and said that I should stay I looked beautiful and there were plenty of guys I could dance with. I told him that I had expected to be with him. I reached out my hand, "I need to say good-bye", and left. I walked into the cold, darkness, alone and very upset. I began driving home in a state of shock. How could he sleep with me the previous Saturday and then show up with another woman, the next? Halfway home, I pulled over into a Mcdonald's restaurant, tears welling in my eyes. I texted a friend and explained the entire episode. His response was that the guy must be crazy to do such a thing and that it was his loss. After an hour, I made my way home. Lesson #10b - there are gentlemen on the internet dating site who have no ethics or consideration for a lady's feelings. Never go out on a subsequent date with a guy who has told you that he wants to keep searching on the internet dating site. Life Lesson for the Gentleman - your behaviour shows that you are angry, cruel and insensitive. No gentleman would treat a lady that way!